Yoga creates connection between mind and body. It helps with mental clarity and concentration. It creates more peace in your life. It builds physical and emotional flexibility. It increases physical and literal balance. And, it helps with your ability to see things from a different perspective.
Yoga is also the perfect opportunity for self discovery. It is the ideal space to learn about yourself, to learn who you are, what you stand for, and what makes you unique to the world. As such, who you are on the mat represents who you are in life.
Chances are that if you are impatient on the mat, you are impatient in the world too. To begin to change the pattern, the next time you take a yoga class, be mindful to practice patience, even if it is only for 2 minutes or for 1 pose. Start small and build up your to a stronger level of patience.
If when you are in a pose you push yourself beyond the point of what feels comfortable and safe, it is likely that you do the same in your day to day interactions. This may show up when you say yes to doing something you don’t really want to do, just because somebody asked or told you to do it. It may also show up as you are pushing your limits beyond the scope of what’s possible in a 24 hour day, not being careful to heed the signs from your body to take the time you need for yourself to reboot and recharge.
Yes, it is important to know your limits. But more often than not, when we face something challenging, fear gets in the way and we give up. Pay attention to your ability to challenge yourself within healthy boundaries. We are capable of much more than we give ourselves credit for.
If this sounds like you, STOP! Comparison is the worst thing you could do to yourself. And chances are, if you are doing it on the mat, you are doing it in your life too. It is so important to know who you are and what is best for you regardless of what anyone else does or can do.
The next time you find you are comparing yourself to others, remember this: if anything were to happen to you in your life to change your current situation for the worse, you would beg God back for this very minute. Suddenly, this very minute that you were finding fault with only moments ago would become perfect, just as it was in the first place.
Practice gratitude for the perfection that is your life. You are in charge. You get to make the rules. You get to decide.